"Some people say "what you see is what you get" (meaning what you look like is what you are) while others say "never judge a book by its cover" (meaning outward appearances don't reflect what is inside the person). Discuss the implications of both attitudes and say which you agree with more"
In
my opinion, I think that both ways presented to think about a new person that
you encounter in your life goes to two places totally different as how are you
going to interact with them and only a first impression should not be the best
way to know someone.
To
begin with, the phrase "what you see is what you get” I think is a tad bit
too prejudice way to act at the moment when you meet someone new because it can
occur that they are not in their best mood for what had happened before in
their days and, by accident, you meet their worst side without having the opportunity
to meet when they are okay.
On the other hand, the phrase "never
judge a book by its cover" can be maybe, in some sort of way, a too
carefree attitude because sometimes we need that tiny mistrust in people to
avoid being in the future in a bad situation that can be easily avoided by ‘judging’
the people we met.
Besides that, I do think that the phrase "never
judge a book by its cover" is kind of unrealistic because, even if we did
not want to discriminate or judge people beforehand, we are going to do it
anyways due the fact that is an unconscious thing that we do.
Overall, I do think that we should find a
point in between both statements to have the ideal reaction to when we meet new
people.